On your wedding day the lingerie that you wear tends to get overshadowed by your wedding dress, but in fact this is the right and appropriate time to wear some really hot lingerie! Most busy women don’t have to time to wear hot lingerie on a daily basis, so on this one very special day it’s a good opportunity to try it out for once. Your new husband will also love it! Imagine his eyes when you slip out of your beautiful wedding dress and are wearing really sexy, white lingerie beneath it?
It can be very disconcerting to find that your boyfriend has grown cold and distant all of a sudden. The reasons for this could be many, the most common being the ones cited below. Learn why he started to grow cold and understand why he wants to withdraw from the relationship.
The words “I LOVE YOU” has been greatly abused by many people. Though it is an expression of deep affection for someone, yet many couples, married or unmarried, expressing “I LOVE YOU” to each other yet still found their love-life in rot. One would wonder and think that those couples used to be super sweet but now they have already lost that loving feeling they had for each other. There are just too many examples of this situation to cite here. Like for example, a husband would tell his wife those words when he affectionately holds her hands but affords to hit her when they have a fight. A guy would say those same words to his wife when they are both alone petting yet he says those same words of affection to his other women while drowning in convulsive ecstasy. Another guy says those words to his girlfriend while having sex with her but leaves her afterwards emotionally devastated. A single woman says those words to her boyfriend while in voluptuous and torrid kissing with each other but has no respect for him by calling him bad words whenever they have some kind of disagreements. These situations are quite common. The guy and the girl are into a seemingly loving relationship yet they hurt each other verbally and physically. To all the guys out there, do you really love her? And to all the girls out there, do you really love him? Or do you just lust for each other? Let us examine what love really is so that after knowing what it is, we would be able to recognize it when it comes into our lives; or that when something else comes – lust.
Our idea about love mostly comes from the romantic stories that we see on TV and in the movies. The actors in those movies portray a kind of love that they believe is real love, so that the influential effect of this portrayal brings a lot of people into that same kind of outlook. And this portrayal of love reverberates to a greater public to an extent that it seems to have become the authority on love. The world has been tricked to believe that making love (kissing and caressing and doing sensual acts) is real love as what can be seen on TV and movies and in advertisements, etc. Where then can we find real love? But the term “real love” is even a misnomer because there cannot be such a term as “unreal love” because love in itself is what it is. If it is not love then it is something else – lust.
So where can we find what love really is? The bible is the real authority on love, not the movies, not the TV and the advertisements. The Bible says in First Corinthians 13: 4-7, “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres”. Basing on this truth and authority about love, you can now look into what you feel for someone right now. Is it love or lust?
When a husband would tell his wife “I LOVE YOU” as he affectionately holds her hands but affords to hit her when they have a fight does not really love her but just lusting with her. When a guy would say those same words to his wife when they are both alone petting yet he says those same words of affection to his other women while drowning in convulsive ecstasy does not love her but only lusting with her. When another guy says those words to his girlfriend while having sex with her but leaves her afterwards emotionally devastated is not really loving her but just lusting with her. When a single woman says those words to her boyfriend while in voluptuous and torrid kissing with each other but has no respect for him by calling him bad words whenever they have some kind of disagreements does not love him but is only lusting with him. Conclusively, the bottom line of all this is that it is not love when you have no regard for your partner that you cause to hurt him/her emotionally or physically. When you are in this state of being, you don’t say “I LOVE YOU”, but fittingly and rightfully, you say, “I LUST YOU”.
